The couple quarreled and lived in the same room for a week without seeing his wife's death

The wife is willing to bet so she often quarrels with her husband. After each quarrel, although in the same suite, the husband and wife often ate each one and slept one another and ignored each other. Tragedy also originated here.

At about 0:00 a.m. yesterday morning, Jinzhou Ruiyuan Community, Jindian City, Jinzhou City, when her husband Mr. Wu opened his wife's door, only to find his wife died in bed, dead body odor full house. And just a week ago, they had just had a fight and they hadn't seen one for a week.

At present, for the death of Chen, Jinjiang police have ruled out his killing.

Yesterday morning, when the reporter came to Chen’s home, he found that the door had been closed. Chen’s relatives, friends and neighbors stated that Chen was a person at the Jinjiang Chi store and was 39 years old this year. He and his husband, Mr. Wu, usually do a fish trade business. Chen usually likes to play mahjong gambling. "The bet is quite big and I lost more than 200,000 yuan." For this reason, the couple often quarreled.

"After each quarrel, they often sleep in different ways. They do not even eat together. Under the same roof, the couple do not meet. According to a neighbor of Mr. Wu, he listened to Mr. Wu afterwards. The quarrel was also caused by gambling, which occurred about a week ago. After the quarrel, although Mr. Wu returned home every day, he and his wife, Chen, “had not seen each other.” “Listen to him, before each quarrel, it didn’t matter.” The couple had a daughter who was a junior high school student. During the summer vacation, because he was studying at school, he returned home the night before. He did not see his mother and found that his mother's bedroom was locked. Then he called his father.

According to relatives, friends and neighbors of the deceased, Mr. Wu was only alert at this time. At about zero o'clock yesterday morning, Mr. Wu returned home and came to his wife's bedroom door. He smelled through the door and smelled the stench. He immediately opened the door, only to find his wife died in bed, the body has been uttered a burst of smell. At the same time, there were a few sleeping pills on the bedside, and the air conditioning in the room was still open. Mr. Wu said to his relatives and friends that his wife must have died of sleeping pills, but he did not know what day she was eating.

Chen’s relatives and friends stated that Mr. Wu had already transported his wife’s body to the funeral home. Because of his deep sorrow, he hoped that reporters would not bother him. The head of the duty at the Jidian police station in Jinjiang City stated that the institute had been involved in the investigation of this matter. Chen’s death has basically eliminated him.

Expert statement

In the face of setbacks, it is often only 5 minutes.

According to Zeng Jinhua, deputy director of the Provincial Red Cross Psychological Assistance Office and director of the Department of Psychology at the Provincial Medical Institute, Mr. Wu's relationship with his wife, Chen, may be due to his wife's indulging in gambling, which has caused tensions in the family economy, family atmosphere and even husband and wife. In fact, after Chen had quarreled with her husband because of gambling, he should have made painstaking efforts and made sincere statements to his husband and relatives and friends, changed his predecessors, changed his gambling habits, or sought help from a psychiatrist, to get rid of gambling addiction. When the average person encounters setbacks, he often does not pass the five minutes. Chen seizes himself in the house, and he does not receive the help of others and chooses a route that does not return.

Chen Benlan, director of the Policy Research Office of Quanzhou City Public Security Bureau and associate professor of psychology, said that the two were in the same room and the gap was so deep that the tragedy was caused because the psychological conflicts between the couple had reached an irreconcilable level. In fact, there are many ways to solve any kind of contradiction. "Better than this 'Cold War' approach is that couples communicate with each other and compromise each other." Even in the “Cold War” period, if the family has one more eye and more observations, the tragedy may be avoided.

Chen Benlan believes that gambling addiction is a mental illness. Mr. Wu could have mobilized his wife to see a psychiatrist and help his wife to quit the gambling addiction.

Ye Yanqi, a psychology teacher at University of Dawn University, said that it is not easy to love someone. Do not give up because of a momentary conflict. Chen indulged in gambling, probably because her emotions could not be met and could not be found in life, career, family, and love. Therefore, she could only seek sustenance and imaginary sustenance in gambling. And her husband, Mr. Wu, in this situation, should care more about his wife and help her get rid of bad habits.

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